It is no doubt that Nigerian men make
wonderful lovers; they are sweet, kind,
thoughtful, maybe not very romantic but
romantic still and good in bed too. It is
also no doubt that these men are very rare
to come by in Nigeria. Maybe by default or
societal conditioning, most Nigerian men
are so not it; they are egoistic, chauvinistic
and make terrible husband materials. You
wonder why I think Nigerian men; at least
most of them, won’t make good husbands,
read the reasons listed below:
-They Are Chauvinists: pardon the strong
word “chauvinists” but Nigerian men prefer
to stick to their bias opinion about women
and their responsibilities in the home. They
take the “head” duty way too serious and
often push the women aside expecting
them to follow their will and do as they
say. If you marry a Nigerian man, you will
probably end up as the less important voice
in the home rather than as the partner you
are to him.
– They Are Polygamous In Nature: In
Nigeria, some men believe men are entitled
to as many women as they can handle and
so, they are free to marry more than one
wife or have affairs with other women. With
a Nigerian man, it is never certain that you
will be the only woman in his life. To save
yourself the heartbreak of discovering
condoms and hotel receipts in his pocket or
worse, finding out he has secret children,
please do not marry a Nigerian man.
– They Are Not Romantic: you want
flowers, a guy to follow you to the salon,
exotic lunches, dinners, vacations,
chocolates and breakfast in bed? Then, a
Nigerian man is not the man you should
marry. They often consider these things as
cheesy and unnecessary. Maybe they will
try on your birthday and Valentine’s Day
(that’s if they don’t come up with excuses
to forget). The most romantic thing some
Nigerian men will ever get for you is packs
of food from an eatery or drinks and few
back/foot rubs just right before sex.
– You Will Be A Nanny To A Grown Man: if
God blesses you with a Nigerian man and a
somehow scattered one, you are in soup.
You’ve just graduated to being a nanny to
a full grown man. You will pick his socks,
shirts and what not after him when he gets
back from work, even flush the toilet when
he’s done. Be ready to face a sulking man
if the food is not ready on time or you try
to get him to do something for you when
his favourite game or TV show is on. You
will have to pet and stroke his ego almost
all the time to make him happy.
– They Have The Wife Beating Syndrome:
either by societal conditioning or home
training, some Nigerian men believe it is
very normal to hit a woman; that is the
only way to put them back on track when
they are wrong. It is no secret that some
Nigerian men will beat their wives and feel
no regret about it; it is somehow the
woman’s fault the man is so angry to the
extent he has to hit her. If you’re not ready
to lose your fine skin to the itchy palms of
a man, please steer clear of Nigerian men.
-They are also good liars. They smoke and
drink heavily and blame it on the society’s
deteriorating condition; they have to “keep
body and soul together”. Many Nigerian
men have money problem; it is either they
are misers or heavy spenders. Some prefer
to show off the wealth they do not possess
by living way beyond their standards. And
the most annoying part is that many
Nigerian men are Mr nice guy in public and
Mr stingy in their homes which you will
agree is not a very attractive trait
especially in someone you want to spend
the rest of your life with.
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